Tomorrow is not promised
By Javis “Jay” Brunson @JavisJay
Have you ever found yourself putting off today for tomorrow?
If you answered “Yes”, then I ask you to think on this, “Tomorrow is not promised.”
The song “The Cat’s in the Cradle” is told in the first-person by a father who is too busy with work to spend time with his son. Each time the son asks him to join in childhood activities, the father issues vague promises of spending time together in the future. While disappointed, the son accepts his excuses and yearns to “be like you, Dad.” The first verse tells of his absence at his son’s birth and walking, as “there were planes to catch and bills to pay”; the second verse relates the father buying the son a baseball as a birthday present but likewise declining to play catch.
The final two verses reverse the roles. In the third verse, the son returns home from college and his father finally has some time to spend with him. Instead, the son just wants to go out and asks the father for the car keys. The fourth verse advances the story quite some time, when the father is long retired and his son has started his own family some distance away. The father makes a phone call to his son and invites him for a visit, but the son has his own issues with his job and his children are sick with “the flu.” He tells his father he will visit him if he “can find the time” and says “it’s been sure nice talking to you” before he says goodbye. The final two lines of the song reflect the father’s observation of what has happened:
“And as I hung up the phone it occurred to me, he’d grown up just like me.
My boy was just like me”
Tomorrow is not promised. Enjoy life today.